When Our (Yours & Mines) paths intersect on the street, DR – Conceptually or IRL Experience is irrelevant – Imma seek the answers to these 3 questions, before I proceed:
- Do You Trust Me?
- Do I Have Your Undivided Attention?
- Can You accept if I say the word, “F#ck” – not just once, but over & over & over again?
This is how I, Conner Romesco, gauge if You – Other Person & fellow Human Being – are “creating a Safe Space” for Me to be Authentic with You, DR.
No, it’s not automatic. There’s already been a lot of data acquired in the Files, but that’s all “Invisible Work” to You, DR, because You are external to My SB.
But let’s imagine We have Connected IRL a few times, and You want to “BeFriend” Me. You wanna hang out with Me. You wanna ask Me to date You. Whatev the case may be.
*Spoiler Alert!* I don’t waste My time doing this with Conceptual Folks – I’m sure they are all “very nice people, on both sides” – but I just can’t waste My time or energy in that realm. I’d rather spend that time & energy on the IRL Connections I am making right now. [N: I get way more dopamine jolts this way]
I’m not gonna verbally even ask these things, most of the time. But I will ‘get’ those answers regardless: PASSION is listening. PASSION is watching. It’s PASSION that gives Conscious Me – and TECH – the go-ahead to proceed with the patty-cake playing.
“Leap! And the Net will Appear.” -or- “Take a Chance.” -or- “Ask Forgiveness, Not Permission.” Take Your pic, DR. We have a bunch of useful phrases for this Concept out here already. [N: loll]
And one more thing: If this all goes according to [N: My] plan? Congrats!
“You are Now My Soulmate.”
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Conner’s Comments: And if that scene in Titanic – that scene with Jack & Rose – pops into Your SB while You read this Story, DR? If that scene resonated strongly for You just now? Then You and I could Fall-In-Love-at-First Sight, DR. In another multiverse of course. But since We (You & Me) are in this multiverse? Imma make You My Bestie instead.